fall in love or build love

Don’t FALL in but BUILD
What is the attitude of a Muslim when he meets ??? He/she was faced with two choices, FALL in or BUILD ?????
In a simple analogy, 1st when someone falls, no one can rise again, although not a few who die slowly with the pain experienced/ painfully hurt. (Love make the weak man become strong & the strong man become weak). But it would be nice when we choose the 2nd option, “BUILD , develop love so intertwined and eternal love, in order to our everlasting to heaven.
Eg: if there is a man who said: "I love you, will you be my girlfriend?, etc… actually he said "I want to commit adultery? will you commit adultery with me?" naudzubillah… (The brave man it’s not only the man who can fight his enemies, but also can fight his desire).( Love can’t be tested by kisses, but the fine feeling is the testor)
The Psychology: man & woman → are designed differently
Man →logic eg: (the man was put forward logic rather than emotion/feeling).
→feeling/emotion “when a man seduce and praised the woman who is not lawful for him is very rarely out of his heart, but more than a passion that is packed with logic.”
Woman →feeling eg: “praise”
→logic women who increasingly rely on their feelings, when a man praises her as if he
was flying in the sky..
Rise in love with authenticity itself, be a man worthy to love and be loved God. Up until love everlasting to heaven.
Mate that God has prepared for us, right? So, why do we go before God's decision to take the devil.
So, BUILD your
Let us change the energy of love. From wish to have so give. From the looks so prepare. Leave time will tell. Let history record the journey of life of a servant of God who want to purify ourselves and istiqomah to guard our honor,purity. until when the time come. say to the World… “now the time was come” to propose the beautiful an angel with watchful eye… until the angel of heaven jealous of u. RIGHT, But it’s not time…Let us fix it yourself and prepare early, start from now….
isn’t a shop where everybody can enter to it for some shopping………